Casual Living
The Evaporation of Decorum
The Informality Imperative
The Ubertrend describing humanity’s migration from formality to casualness in dress, speech, conduct and conscience — driven by Casual Friday in the workplace, athleisure in the closet, and an anonymous internet culture that has lowered the barrier of civilized behavior. The signature side effect is the evaporation of decorum: road rage, air rage, cyberbullying, mass shootings, and a casual disregard for civility.
Honolulu, 1940s
The Casual Living Ubertrend’s modern arc traces to Waikīkī in the 1940s, when a prominent Hawaiian surfer named Duke Kahanamoku approached the management of the Royal Hawaiian Hotel and proposed that staff begin wearing Hawaiian shirts every Friday. The trend, initially called Aloha Shirt Friday, was renamed Aloha Friday in 1966.
What made Kahanamoku so influential with Royal Hawaiian Hotel management was his prominent role in popularizing an ancient Hawaiian sport, surfing, beginning in Southern California in 1912. Hawaii became the 50th U.S. state on August 21, 1959, and the number of visitors to the islands jumped from 296,000 per year to 1.7 million between 1960 and 1970. By 1985, Hawaii tourism arrivals had approached 5 million, exposing many visitors to the islands’ more casual lifestyle.
Aloha Friday slowly began spreading east to California in the 1970s, and by the 1990s it had made its way to New York, acquiring a new moniker along the way: Casual Friday. The shirt was the leading edge; the entire dress code, then the entire conduct code, would follow.
A coined word, a slow-motion shed
“Casual Living” entered the Ubertrend lexicon to describe the slow-motion shedding of formality across every social interface in the late 20th century. The word itself is unremarkable. Its specific compression of the trend is not.
The arc is a relay race. Aloha Shirt Friday (1940s) became Aloha Friday (1966), spread to the mainland as Casual Friday (1970s–80s), spawned business casual (Silicon Valley, 1980s), and finally collapsed into everyday casual — the default mode of the post-2000 American economy. Electronic Arts co-founder Bing Gordon told Fortune in 1994: “If you don’t have anything to say, wear a suit.” The remark moved from contrarian to consensus inside a decade.
By 1996, nearly 75% of American businesses had introduced a Casual Friday policy — up from just 37% four years earlier. J.P. Morgan Chase held its formal dress code until June 2016, when it finally loosened. By 2017, a Travelodge study of 2,000 U.K. workers found that only one in 10 still wore a suit to work. The shirt was no longer the leading edge. The shirt was the dress code.
Jeans, T-shirts, and sneakers
The casualization wave produced what amounts to a planetary uniform: blue jeans, T-shirts and sneakers. Each has a precise origin and a runaway adoption curve.
Levi Strauss, a Bavarian immigrant in San Francisco, was witnessing the 1853 gold rush firsthand. He noticed that prospectors needed durable trousers; his first creation was a pair of miner’s overalls made from brown cotton tent canvas. He and tailor Jacob Davis switched to serge de Nîmes, dyed it indigo, and on May 20, 1873, Strauss paid $69 for the patent application that incorporated Davis’s riveting technique. The pants were nicknamed jeans after the city of Genoa, where sailors wore similar blue cotton. By 2016, 143 years after the patent, the average U.S. consumer owned nine denim garments, including six pairs of jeans. The global denim jeans market was estimated at $87 billion in 2024 and is projected to reach $122 billion by 2030 (Grand View Research).
The T-shirt is younger. The U.S. Navy first used it as undergarment issue around the 1898 Spanish-American War; today the world buys more than 10 billion T-shirts annually. With or without promotional messages, the category is a $20 billion industry. Sneakers trace to 1892, when the Colchester Rubber Co., based in Colchester, Connecticut, introduced the world’s first basketball sneaker: a five-inch high-top. United States Rubber Co. consolidated 30 footwear companies into one brand, Keds, by 1916. They were nicknamed sneakers because they were so quiet you could sneak up on someone in them.
The next layer was athleisure — a portmanteau of athletic and leisure that fanned out from hip-hop and yoga to the airport, then to the dinner table. The athleisure boom accelerated far beyond U.S. borders: the global athleisure market reached $422 billion in 2025 and is projected to approach $892 billion by 2033 (Grand View Research). Footwear represents 64.7% of global sportswear revenue. Leggings, in particular, ditched the muted past for colorful patterns; in 2017, U.S. imports of women’s elastic knit pants surpassed those of jeans for the first time. The science-fiction prediction of catsuit-as-default may finally be arriving.
Four engines of informality
Four engines drive the Casual Living flywheel — each one measurable, each one accelerating since the 1990s. The Casual Friday cascade made informality the default workplace setting. Athleisure reframed leisurewear as everyday wear. The Global Uniform standardized that everyday wear across continents. And anonymity — urban, vehicular, digital — removed the social cost of behaving badly inside that uniform.
Driver 01
The Casual Friday cascade
75% of U.S. businesses had introduced Casual Friday by 1996, up from 37% four years earlier. JP Morgan Chase held until June 2016. By 2017, only 1 in 10 U.K. workers wore a suit to work. Bing Gordon, 1994: “If you don’t have anything to say, wear a suit.”
Driver 02
Athleisure as everyday wear
Global athleisure market: $422 billion in 2025, projected $892 billion by 2033. Footwear: 64.7% of global sportswear revenue. By 2017, U.S. imports of women’s leggings surpassed jeans for the first time. Lululemon retail productivity: approximately $1,609 per square foot (2024).
Driver 03
The Global Uniform
Levi Strauss patented riveted denim in 1873 ($69 fee). By 2016 the average U.S. consumer owned nine denim garments, six pairs of jeans. The world buys 10 billion T-shirts annually ($20B industry). Sneakers, originally a 5-inch Colchester Rubber high-top from 1892, are now the largest U.S. footwear category.
Driver 04
Anonymity
Urban density, tinted-window cars, and the anonymous internet have lowered the social cost of bad behavior. Villanova social psychologist Erica Slotter: “When we feel anonymous, we lose focus of our moral compass and are more likely to behave badly.” The Casual Living Ubertrend has its own behavioral by-product.
Rude behavior
The dress-down arc has come with a conduct-down companion. On Broadway, badly behaving audiences are now a perennial subject of New York Post coverage — ringing phones, glowing screens, crinkling wrappers, drink-fueled commentary. In the 2015 revival of She Loves Me, lead Laura Benanti was singing Will He Like Me when a cellphone went off. “I’ll wait,” she said. The phone continued to ring. “We’ll all wait,” she added, and the orchestra stopped playing until the phone was silenced.
Sports fans have produced the bigger ledger. The 2004 Pacers–Pistons brawl at the Palace of Auburn Hills saw fans and players throwing punches, one spectator hurling a chair, and the NBA suspending nine players for a combined 140-plus games. Commissioner David Stern called the incident “shocking, repulsive and inexcusable.” The youth-sports referee crisis followed at scale: 70% of new referees quit within three years, citing harassment, per the National Association of Sports Officials.
Politics has been infected. The Capitol-floor heckling of President Obama in 2009, the Trump-rally violence cycle, and the spread of incivility across cable-news panels are now case studies in the same casualization arc. Fully 74% of Americans told the AP-NORC Center for Public Affairs Research in 2016 that society is generally more ill-mannered than it was 30 years ago. The number has continued to climb.
Five numbers that frame the casualization
of U.S. businesses had introduced Casual Friday by 1996 (up from 37% four years earlier)
denim garments owned per U.S. consumer as of 2016 (six pairs of jeans). 10B T-shirts sold globally each year.
U.S. activewear market in 2017 — growing while the overall apparel market declined 2%
people shot in U.S. road rage incidents in 2023 (118 deaths) — one every 18 hours
of Americans say society is more ill-mannered than it was 30 years ago (AP-NORC, 2016)
A timeline arc
Bavarian immigrant Levi Strauss arrives in San Francisco during the gold rush. He sells brown cotton tent canvas as miner’s overalls.
May 20 — Strauss pays $69 for the riveted-denim patent. The Global Uniform’s first thread is set.
The Colchester Rubber Co. introduces the world’s first basketball sneaker, a five-inch high-top. The category that will become Keds is born.
The U.S. Navy adopts T-shirts as underwear during the Spanish-American War. Outerwear adoption will follow half a century later.
Duke Kahanamoku proposes Aloha Shirt Friday at the Royal Hawaiian Hotel. The casual-Friday concept has its prototype.
August 21 — Hawaii becomes the 50th U.S. state. Visitor numbers jump from 296,000 to 1.7 million in a decade.
Aloha Shirt Friday is renamed Aloha Friday, then spreads east through the 1970s and reaches the mainland as Casual Friday in the 1990s.
August 1 — postal worker Patrick Sherrill kills 14 at the Edmond, Oklahoma postal office. The phrase “going postal” will enter print in 1993.
Los Angeles news station KTLA coins “road rage” after a string of shootings on the city’s freeways. The St. James Encyclopedia traces it to roid rage.
Pittsburgh-based Alcoa becomes one of the earliest non-Silicon Valley adopters of business casual.
75% of U.S. businesses have a Casual Friday policy, up from 37% in 1992.
April 19 — the “Terror Twins” incident on United Flight 857 diverts the SFO→Shanghai flight to Anchorage. Air rage enters the public lexicon.
The Pacers-Pistons brawl at the Palace of Auburn Hills results in 140+ games of player suspensions.
13-year-old Megan Meier hangs herself after MySpace cyberbullying by her neighbor Lori Drew. Cyberbullying enters the national conversation.
483 people shot in U.S. road rage incidents (118 killed), per Everytown analysis of Gun Violence Archive data — a 400%+ increase since 2014. One person shot every 18 hours.
The evidence base
Casual Living is three forces braided together: the dress-down cascade, the decorum collapse, and the digital amplifier. The first describes how the clothing got casual. The second describes how the conduct got casual. The third explains why the conduct collapse has been faster and more visible than any prior civility cycle in history.
The dress-down cascade is the most-measured of the three. Levi’s, Gap, Dockers and the Silicon Valley wardrobe (Apple, Intel, Sun Microsystems) defined “business casual” in the 1980s; 75% U.S. business adoption of Casual Friday by 1996 finished the job. The pendulum has barely swung back. NPD’s 2011 tailored-clothing uptick (men’s suits +10.8%) was a one-cycle blip. By 2017, sales had resumed their steady decline. Athleisure took the freed wallet share.
The decorum collapse is the more painful one. By 2015, IATA had reported 10,854 worldwide unruly-passenger cases (one in every 1,205 flights). The FAA reported more than 1,240 unruly-passenger cases in 2024, noting that the incident rate had dropped more than 80% from the early-2021 pandemic-era peak. The leading cause remains alcohol or drug intoxication. A Harvard study by Katherine DeCelles and James Collins found that the chance of an air-rage incident in economy is 3.84 times greater when there is a first-class section visible.
The digital amplifier is the multiplier on both. USA Today warned in 2007 that “nasty comments, sometimes even death threats, have become ubiquitous on virtually any site that seeks to engage readers in discussion.” NPR shut down its comments section in 2016. Reddit, X, Discord and Twitch have all fought variants of the trolling and harassment problem. Pepe the Frog was hijacked by the alt-right. Megan Meier was an early prototype; Gabriella Green, 12, hanged herself January 10, 2018 in Panama City Beach after being cyberbullied by two 12-year-old classmates.
75% Casual Friday adoption by 1996. The suit never came back.
U.S. business adoption of Casual Friday: 37% (1992) → 75% (1996). JP Morgan Chase loosened June 2016. UK suit-to-work rate: 1 in 10 by 2017. Activewear: $48B in 2017, growing while overall apparel shrank. Leggings imports surpassed jeans in 2017.
Air rage, road rage, and the youth-referee crisis.
FAA: 1,240+ unruly-passenger cases in 2024, down 80%+ from 2021 pandemic peak (IATA recorded 10,854 in 2015). First-class section makes economy air rage 3.84x more likely (Harvard DeCelles & Collins). 2004 Pacers-Pistons brawl: 140+ game suspensions. 70% of new youth-sports referees quit within three years.
Anonymity is the multiplier.
2007 USA Today: “Nasty comments, sometimes even death threats, have become ubiquitous.” NPR closed comments in 2016. 13-year-old Megan Meier’s 2006 MySpace cyberbullying case (perpetrated by neighbor Lori Drew) catalyzed the first wave of cyberbullying legislation. 12-year-old Gabriella Green: January 10, 2018.
Road Rage: KTLA, Los Angeles, 1988
Los Angeles news station KTLA coined the term “road rage” in 1988 after a string of shootings on the city’s freeways. The St. James Encyclopedia of Popular Culture traces the phrase to roid rage — the sudden, violent outbursts that follow anabolic steroid use. The decade that followed added 30 million cars to U.S. roads and 600 billion additional annual miles by 2000. The AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety later documented a 51% rise in serious aggressive-driving incidents between 1990 and 1996. By 2014, 78% of U.S. drivers admitted to at least one aggressive act in the prior year. The cost has compounded: in 2023, according to Everytown analysis of Gun Violence Archive data, 483 people were shot in U.S. road rage incidents and 118 killed — one person shot every 18 hours.
Image courtesy: Adobe StockThe rage index
If casualization has a payoff, it also has a body count. The most documented sub-Ubertrend is the rage index: road rage, air rage, “going postal,” cyberbullying, mass shootings.
Road rage is the largest entry in the ledger. The 1988 KTLA coinage was followed by a NHTSA-tracked surge in “aggressive driving” behaviors. The 1990s added 30 million cars and 600 billion additional annual U.S. miles. A 2002 Public Agenda study had 35% of Americans admitting to aggressive driving; AAA’s 2014 update put the figure at 78%, with tailgating (51%) and yelling at other drivers (47%) leading. Fatal accidents involving aggressive driving jumped from 26 in 2004 to 247 in 2013 in Washington Post’s NHTSA analysis. Now in 2023, the U.S. is averaging one road-rage shooting victim every 18 hours.
Air rage has its own arc. On April 19, 2001, identical twins Cynthia and Crystal Mikula, 22, of Buckley, Michigan, started a physical altercation on United Flight 857 from San Francisco to Shanghai — pilots diverted to Anchorage; both arrested. Six years earlier, on October 20, 1995, Wall Street investment banker Gerald Finneran, 59, harassed flight attendants on a Buenos Aires→New York flight, was refused further drink service, defecated on a service cart in front of first-class passengers, and smeared feces on the walls. IATA reported 10,854 unruly-passenger cases worldwide in 2015; the FAA counted more than 1,240 in 2024, down sharply from the 2021 peak. The Harvard 3.84x air-rage finding for economy when first class is present strongly suggests the U.S. domestic-airline cabin layout has structural responsibility.
Mass shootings — what the chapter calls the Suicide Killer trend — are the worst entry. Patrick Sherrill, a part-time letter carrier, walked into the Edmond, Oklahoma postal office on August 1, 1986, killed 14 employees, wounded six, and shot himself. The term “going postal” entered print on December 17, 1993, in the St. Petersburg Times. The U.S. has logged more than 154 mass shootings in which a single shooter killed four or more people as of the original publication — with 1,102 people killed, 185 of them children, 20 of them first-graders (The Violence Project). The count has continued to climb; visit The Violence Project database for current figures. In 2024, CDC recorded 44,447 firearm deaths in the U.S. — a rate of 13.1 per 100,000.
The casualization theme runs through all four: the perpetrator is anonymous (urban, vehicular, digital, or postal), the cost externalized to bystanders, and the moral architecture of restraint conspicuously absent. The Hawaiian shirt did not cause the rage. The cultural lubricant that made the Hawaiian shirt acceptable, however, also made the rage culturally cheaper.
The pushback
Casual Living’s scale has triggered a multi-front pushback — on dress, on conduct, and on platforms.
On dress, the suit briefly rebounded. In 2002, NPD’s tailored-clothing data turned upward after the 2001 financial crisis re-prioritized professional appearance; Bear Stearns and Lehman Brothers reinstituted formal dress codes the same year “designed to sharpen their image.” That joy didn’t last. By 2008, both investment banks had collapsed in the wake of a self-inflicted credit crisis. Tailored clothing rallied again in 2011 (men’s suits +10.8%, ties +10.3%) and the first half of 2013 (sports coats +14%, suit separates +55%), but by 2017 the steady decline had resumed. The Travelodge 1-in-10 figure from 2017 closed the case.
On conduct, the institutional pushback has come from platforms, leagues and venues. The NBA’s post-2004 dress code, post-2004 fan-conduct rules, and the David Stern-era $25,000-and-up fines for player misbehavior set a corporate-civility template. NPR’s 2016 comments shutdown and a wave of similar moves at Reuters, The Atlantic and The Daily Beast tried to reset online discourse. Theater and concert venues have stepped up phone-jamming policies. The 2015 Laura Benanti “we’ll all wait” moment became its own meme.
On platforms, the pushback has been more consequential. Megan Meier’s 2006 suicide led to anti-cyberbullying laws in 49 states. Facebook’s 2018 Cambridge Analytica reckoning produced a $5 billion FTC settlement. Section 230 reform has been a perennial topic in Congress since 2020. The EU’s Digital Services Act (effective February 17, 2024) extended liability for systemic disinformation and harassment to platforms with more than 45 million EU users. The casualization wave has now provoked the second-largest regulatory backlash in 21st-century internet history, after privacy.
The Casual Living president
The next decade plays out on three vectors that the 2019 chapter could already see.
First, the political incivility cycle has tracked Casual Living closely. The 2016 election yielded a candidate who said: “I could stand in the middle of Fifth Avenue and shoot someone, and I wouldn’t lose any voters.” The 2020 and 2024 election cycles confirmed the new tone. Twitter (now X) became the President’s preferred mass-communication tool; the platform’s 2022 change of ownership, content-moderation rollback, and reinstatement of previously suspended accounts then accelerated the same dynamic across the broader social-media stack. Casual Living has a political wing, and it is not contesting elections quietly.
Second, the rage economy has matured into a distinct policy domain. Everytown’s 2023 finding that the U.S. now averages one road-rage shooting victim every 18 hours sits alongside U.S. manufacturers distributing 9.77 million firearms in 2023 (ATF), down from the pandemic-era peak of 2021–2022. The post-PASPA expansion of legal sports betting (38 states plus D.C. and Puerto Rico) and the 24-state-plus-territories recreational-cannabis count have both contributed to ambient disinhibition in public spaces. The casualization of risk-bearing has tracked the casualization of dress.
Third, the cultural cleanup is institutionalizing. The EU’s Digital Services Act (2024), the U.S. Surgeon General’s warning-label proposal on social media (2024), the Online Safety Act in the UK (2023), and a wave of state-level cyberbullying and revenge-porn statutes constitute the largest regulatory response to online conduct since the early-internet anti-spam era. Whether the response is fast enough is the open question.
The chapter’s closing prediction was that society would “encounter more air- and road-rage perpetrators dressed in Hawaiian shirts and sweatpants hurling epithets at you in the near future.” That prediction has held. Whether it bottoms out in this decade or extends across the next is the next chapter.
Where Casual Living intersects
The same surveillance cameras that record the road rage, the air rage, the Pacers-Pistons brawl. Casual Living has been documented by the screen. The screen has not yet stopped it.
The smartphone amplifies the anonymous bad actor and provides the megaphone for outrage. Trolling and cyberbullying are Unwired’s decorum-collapse tax.
Spring break, megaclubs, sports-stadium chaos and reality-TV culture share Casual Living’s grammar of permitted excess. The dress code is the experience.
Selected sources
- Michael Tchong, Ubertrends — How Trends and Innovation Are Transforming Our Future, Chapter 6: Casual Living (2019). The canonical source for this entry; original chapter footnotes carry through to inline citations above.
- Maleko McDonnell, “When did we first start celebrating Aloha Friday?” KITV (May 27, 2016).
- Lauren Goldstein, “What We Wore Simply put, the history of office attire for men goes something like this: suits, suits, suits, khakis,” Fortune (November 22, 1999).
- Deirdre Clemente, “Why American Workers Now Dress So Casually,” The Atlantic (May 22, 2017).
- Andria Cheng, “Men’s Apparel Turns Alpha,” The Wall Street Journal (November 17, 2017).
- “Aggressive Driving and Road Rage,” SafeMotorist.com. On the 1988 KTLA coinage.
- Louis Mizell, Matthew Joint et al., “Aggressive Driving: Three Studies,” AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety (March 1997). 51% rise 1990-1996.
- Christopher Ingraham, “Road rage is getting uglier, angrier and a lot more deadly,” The Washington Post (February 18, 2015).
- Jennifer Mascia and Chip Brownlee, “Road Rage Shootings Have Surged Over the Past Decade,” The Trace (April 25, 2024).
- Everytown for Gun Safety Support Fund, “New Everytown Report Finds Someone Was Wounded or Killed in a Road Rage Shooting Every 18 Hours on Average in 2023” (December 19, 2024). 483 victims; 118 deaths.
- Kim Murphy, “Terror Twins Cool Their Jets in an Alaskan Jail,” Los Angeles Times (May 13, 2001). On the Cynthia and Crystal Mikula incident.
- Bill Pennington, “Parents Behaving Badly: A Youth Sports Crisis Caught on Video,” The New York Times (July 18, 2018). 70% referee dropout.
- Jennifer Steinhauer, “Verdict in MySpace Suicide Case,” The New York Times (November 26, 2008). On Megan Meier and Lori Drew.
- “Americans believe civility is on the decline,” The Associated Press-NORC Center for Public Affairs Research (April 22, 2016). 74% finding.
- European Commission, Digital Services Act (Regulation (EU) 2022/2065), fully effective February 17, 2024.